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Saving A Marriage - You Hold The Answer
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With fifty one per cent of all marriages ending in divorce today
the question that should be being asked by all couples is how to
go about saving a marriage? How do over half of the couples that
say "I do" end up saying "we can't" when at some point in their
lives they promised to stay together for as long as they lived?
In a marriage you do not go to bed one night with a good one and
wake up the next morning with a failed one. It has been worked
up to slowly and only got there because both parties ignored the
signs of the approach.
If in real estate it is location, location, location; in a
relationship it is communication, communication, communication.
It is not the quantity of what you communicate but the quality.
Even if you partner is yelling at you in anger and upset they
are communicating something. If nothing else you should be real
clear that they are angry and upset and it is now your job to
open the lines of communication so that you can both get to the
cause of the upset.
Questions about feelings rather than statements about blame will
take you a giant step forward in saving a marriage. With
practice you can learn to share the feelings without having to
get to the anger and upset stages.
The best tip for saving a marriage is to be responsible.
Marriage is not a fifty-fifty proposition with each partner
taking fifty per cent of the responsibility. If you want your
marriage to work you need to take one hundred per cent of it.
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If your vows stated for better or for worse the worse part will
be approached when your mate is taking no responsibility.
That is when you get to shoulder it all. And before you get on
your high horse there will be just as many times when you
abrogate your responsibilities and your spouse will be picking
up the slack. Just do not try to keep score. Realize that you
want your marriage to work and you get to make it do that.
When you entered your marriage you did so because you wanted it
to work. You made a commitment to yourself and to your spouse to
make it work. On a daily basis remind yourself what those
commitments were and ask what you are doing to live up to them.
Do not worry if your spouse is not. Your living up for them will
create a loving space that will make it safe for them to get in
touch with why they married you. When you have created that
space you will no longer have to what’s required for saving a
marriage because you will know you have the answer.
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About the Authors...
Like many couples,
Steve & Louise Carter
have worked through the challenges that face most relationships
these days. In their pursuit to get answers to their problems, they
spent months reviewing a huge array of advice, help and support
resources for dealing with relationship issues - some very good,
delivering what they the product's promised; and some not so good.
This is a summary of some of the best products they discovered...
Read their
independent and unbiased reports:
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clearly one of our favourites.
So many men...but where are all of the quality men? Are there
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Most of the guys in my (Louise's) past were boring or worse - many were
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Sound familiar?
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Have The Relationship You Want is written by Rori Gwynne
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We found a lot of solace and real guidance in T W Jackson's
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One of the refreshing aspects of The Magic Of Making Up was that
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The Woman Men Adore ...and
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The book promises to offer value to just about any woman by
revealing how to use tools and assets that they already have to
attract the kind of man they want or to improve their current
relationship. We're sure that every woman on the planet would want
the book if it is as it says, but does the book really deliver
what it promises?
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Double Your Dating product is primarily focused on how
to improve your chances in the 'dating game', rather than
improve any relationship issues you might have.Author David
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significant books on dating advice in the past half a dozen
years.
Because of the huge positive feedback about this
product, we felt a review of David's information was important.
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